House of Ruth

A site for teens concerned about dating violence, brought to you by the House of Ruth, Maryland.

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Rate Your Relationship

  1. My boyfriend/girlfriend is totally fine with me hanging out with my friends and family without him/her.
  2. My boyfriend/girlfriend texts, calls or IMs me even when I say I want to be left alone or I’m busy.
  3. It feels like my boyfriend/girlfriend and I are always arguing
  4. My boyfriend/girlfriend encourages me to dress how I like.
  5. My boyfriend/girlfriend threatens to hurt or kill himself/herself when I try to break up.
  6. I’ve caught my boyfriend/girlfriend going through my cell phone or my personal things.
  7. When we argue, my boyfriend/girlfriend says mean things about me in texts, IMs, or on MySpace or Facebook
  8. I feel like I have to act different to avoid angering my boyfriend/girlfriend.
  9. My boyfriend/girlfriend does not ever break things or hit walls when we were arguing.
  10. My boyfriend/girlfriend accuses me of cheating on him/her a lot even though I’m not.
  11. My boyfriend/girlfriend says I should give him/her my passwords to my e-mail and other accounts if I want to be trusted.
  12. I’ve never felt pressured by my boyfriend/girlfriend to do anything sexual that I didn’t want to do.
  13. My boyfriend/girlfriend has grabbed me, pushed me, or smacked me during an argument.
  14. My boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t get jealous if I talk to another boy/girl.